[Feature to be found in the autumn issue, at your newsstand or by subscription.] The older the age appears on the bodies of his partners, the more our 29-year-old anonymous witness loves them. Fifteen, twenty, sometimes even thirty years separate him from the daddies he is completely crazy about. An attraction that goes beyond the mere physical.
Have you always slept with older guys?
I first tried with guys my own age, but it didn’t last long, because they didn’t really turn me on. I’ve always been attracted to bodies that aren’t cut to perfection like the ones you see so much on apps. Quickly, those of the daddies caught my eye… One of my first hookups was a 55-year-old man when I was 18. I have very fond memories of it.
What catches your eye first in a daddy’s body?
It’s the body of someone who doesn’t count calories, who therefore has a bit of a belly, and the natural hair he keeps. Someone who, on social media, takes a photo without too many artifices, without spending hours thinking about his best angle… Beyond the physical, it’s a way of being in the world: owning his desire to seek younger guys, enjoying life’s pleasures without worrying about what others will say.
How does the age difference play into your encounters?
At first, it was the domination dynamic that mattered. When I’m facing a man much older than me, I naturally feel more at ease to surrender. Trust is easier to establish with someone experienced. I also take a lot of pleasure in watching him master a younger guy who gives themselves, especially since it’s a body he can no longer reclaim himself. By dating daddies, I’ve received a lot of compliments and it has given me confidence in my sexuality and even in my everyday life. Moreover, outside the bedroom, I tend to hang out more with older men than me.
How does the age difference show itself during the quickie?
Where young gay guys want to devour you, old men savor you, as if they take the time to savor a body that obsesses them. Tenderness makes me want to be at the mercy of my partner. It happened that I slept with a guy my own age who was incredibly fit, but I couldn’t get hard, because he was too vigorous. I like encounters that last more than fifteen minutes. We stroke each other, we screw, we bring the temperature down and we start again.
Is there also a verbal thrill in calling him “daddy” during sex?
I’m not usually very verbal, but I like him to talk about me as if I were his son. It isn’t the incestuous aspect that interests me, even if I wouldn’t mind it since it’s a game. But it establishes a sense of belonging, even humiliation, that puts me in the mood.
Are you always the submissive in the story?
I am essentially passive and aroused by the idea that my partner marks his territory by impregnating me. I also really like being restrained, standing up, and him running a roulette with spikes over my body or giving me spanks on the butt or the genitals. Sometimes I like wearing a mask and being reduced to my openings. Of course, all of this is a game and, outside of sex, the relationship is balanced.
